China’s Avant-Garde Androgyny & America’s Retrosexual Medication

china Chinas Avant Garde Androgyny & Americas Retrosexual Medication

The world’s most pop­u­lous coun­try, and one of the most author­i­tar­ian, is fast becom­ing one of the most cul­tur­ally avant-garde.  From the ever-interesting cool-hunt web­site Sci­ence of the Times’ lat­est Top 15 trends:

An androg­y­nous fash­ion style has begun to gain trac­tion in China’s large cities. It’s clas­si­fied as “Zhongx­ing Style” and is adopted by “tomboy” girls seek­ing to express both their com­ing of age and alter­na­tive lifestyle through their gender-blurring cloth­ing and fash­ion sense. The style is typ­i­cally asso­ci­ated with short and spiky hair, baggy cloth­ing, and an over­all “boy” like appearance.

Although Zhongx­ing style is not directly asso­ci­ated with homo­sex­u­al­ity, the report sug­gests that the pop­u­lar­ity of sev­eral gay-themed Tiawanese films with young peo­ple in China have fed into this style.  Fur­ther, it is likely to accel­er­ate the growth of gender-defying male behav­iour too:

If Japan and Korea are any­thing to go by, the fol­low­ing trend could see a new wave of super effem­i­nate men as well. The pretty boy has long since been in the cul­tural sphere in Asia, but has regained steam in Korea with pop­u­lar dra­mas like Boys Over Flow­ers and idols such as Kim Hyun Joong. Also, Japan has seen the growth of a group known as “Grass Eaters” — men set on improv­ing their looks rather than start­ing a family.

(I think the usual Eng­lish trans­la­tion of ‘Grass Eaters’ is ‘Her­bi­vores’, but no matter.)

Whilst China’s grow­ing cities seem to be rush­ing towards a brave new androg­yny, some in Amer­ica are try­ing to work out ways of stamp­ing it out — along with homo­sex­u­al­ity and bisex­u­al­ity — by giv­ing poten­tially dan­ger­ous exper­i­men­tal drugs to preg­nant moth­ers.

An endocri­nol­o­gist at Florida Inter­na­tional Uni­ver­sity is report­edly try­ing to pre­vent the births of girls who dis­play ‘an “abnor­mal” dis­in­ter­est in babies, don’t want to play with girls’ toys or become moth­ers, and whose “career pref­er­ences” are deemed too “mas­cu­line.”

That’s the prob­lem with nature — it’s never nearly nat­ural enough.  So let’s give it a help­ing hand by pathol­o­gis­ing any and all gen­der non-conformity on the part of women!  The drug used in utero to nix any dykey or tomboy or per­haps just uppity ten­den­cies is called ‘Dex’ — though maybe it should be called ‘Don’ as in ‘Draper’.  It must be a very remark­able drug indeed as it seems to promise a kind of time travel — back to 1952.  But with­out any dykes.  Or Doris Day, a feisty career woman. And def­i­nitely no Calamity Janes.

Though appar­ently in this drug-induced ver­sion of 1952 female endocri­nol­o­gists are per­mit­ted.  The doc­tor behind this con­tro­ver­sial treat­ment is her­self a woman.

Tip: Quiet Riot Girl


Update: since The Stranger first reported this story about the use of Dex to pre­vent les­bian­ism and gen­eral lack of  con­ven­tional fem­i­nin­ity a gap has opened up between what some feared Dex was being used for — or what it might be used for — and what it has actu­ally been used for so far: pre­vent­ing the birth of ‘inter­sexed’ babies.  Thanks to QRG for this link to a Newsweek arti­cle.  And also for this one: a rather enter­tain­ing but also alarm­ing blog by P.Z. Myers, a biol­o­gist at the Uni­ver­sity of Min­nesota, who argues that the peo­ple involved in using Dex to treat inter­sexed babies are just itch­ing to use it to stamp out les­bian­ism and gen­eral female assertive­ness. And warns that baby boys are next:

Before you less-than-hyper-macho men get all smug, though, let me warn you: pre­na­tal hor­mone effects is a hot, hot topic in the het­ero­nor­ma­tive world of pedi­atrics. You’re going to be diag­nosed as suf­fer­ing from a pre­na­tal andro­gen defi­ciency and shamed if you’re any­thing less than a man’s man with stereo­typic mas­cu­line inter­ests. Look for intrauter­ine testos­terone treat­ments for women car­ry­ing boy chil­dren, just to make sure they grow up to like foot­ball (Amer­i­can, not that pansy soc­cer stuff) and fol­low macho careers!

By this stan­dard prob­a­bly most young men today would be deemed to be ‘suf­fer­ing from a pre­na­tal andro­gen defi­ciency’.  Which I guess is good news for who­ever has shares in the male ver­sion of Dex.

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  • I con­tinue to treat this page as the ‘women’s sec­tion’ of the blog. It needs a name I’m not call­ing it ‘vag’!

    This polic­ing of gen­der and sex­u­al­ity we’ve talked about here, and the some­times very aggres­sive responses I have had when I try to chal­lenge it, have left me feel­ing much less rea­son­able and strong than I may appear. There is one woman in par­tic­u­lar who has been a mas­sive sup­port and inspi­ra­tion to me. Although I have never met her (she lives in Viet­nam) there have been times when it’s felt like she could tell I was los­ing my strength, and she’d hold me up. I have a feel­ing she does it with loads of peo­ple who don’t feel they fit the norm when it comes to gen­der and sex­u­al­ity. Her lat­est post may be the last for a while, so I thought I’d post it up. She writes some amaz­ing pornog­ra­phy — fic­tion and poetry. But this piece is a lit­tle more philo­soph­i­cal. (Also, appar­ently she is mar­ried to a gay man! So you can see why she might be a woman after my own heart).

    http://remittancegirl.com/shortstories/one-word-a-parable/

  • I wrote this about recent inci­dences of Face­book remov­ing groups that focus on sex­u­al­ity cam­paigns.
    Some blogs/orgs have framed this as a ‘women’s issue’, as one of the groups that has been removed is con­cerned with women who enjoy porn. But I think the gender/sexuality/policing impli­ca­tions are much more complex.

    http://liberalconspiracy.org/2010/08/02/when-your-face-doesn%E2%80%99t-fit-facebook-censorship/#comments

    P.s. Floyd A. I hope The Drugs Don’t Work!!

  • Floyd A:I think there is a drug that can cure you of that affliction.

  • Floyd A. wrote:

    QRG, I think I love you.

  • It is isn’t it? I will re-read it. The fem­i­nists reacted much more to the cli­toral reduc­tion inter­ven­tion than the dex one. I guess it was eas­ier for them to frame it as ‘female gen­i­tal muti­la­tion’ and an attack on women. Whereas the dex research had to be engaged with in terms of inter­sex, (if you reject the idea it was to ‘cure’ les­bians outright).

    I noticed you cre­ated a ‘women’ cat­e­gory for this post. I am delighted. I am look­ing for some more ‘women’s issues’ to go in your ‘women’s sec­tion’. So far every­thing I can find is a bit vaggy though. There is a fem­i­nist con­fer­ence com­ing up in the autumn and no men have been invited to speak at all. I bet it will be a blast.

  • Here is some more on inter­sex and the ‘nor­mal­is­ing’ of sex and gen­der iden­ti­ties: http://shar.es/mNXIJ

  • QRG: Inter­est­ing piece.

  • QRG:
    I feel the same way. It is dif­fi­cult for me to wrap my mind around and make right (in my own think­ing) cul­ture vs. nature vs. ethics vs. phar­ma­co­log­i­cal inter­ven­tion. Where do we draw the lines?

    In my hum­ble opin­ion there really is no right or wrong. Every­thing just kinda is.… I have my rea­sons for think­ing that one thing or another should or should not be hap­pen­ing, and I try to share my thoughts using fact based rea­son­ing to change other people’s minds. I hope/desire peo­ple to do the same for me because I sure as hell don’t know every­thing, but that doesn’t mean I can’t try to know everything!

  • For those who are inter­ested in the ways in which peo­ple express their gen­der iden­tity, this rel­a­tively new web­site and project is excellent:

    http://www.hackgender.org/

    I think there are pos­i­tive and rad­i­cal ways in which peo­ple are chal­leng­ing this bio­log­i­cal deter­min­ism of sex and gen­der iden­tity, that under­pins inter­ven­tions such as the one we are dis­cussing here. I get depressed some­times but there is resis­tance to the polic­ing of our bod­ies and our sex­u­al­i­ties that has always occurred at some level or other in society.

  • To Arc­tic:
    “Because fetuses have no rights and no sex­ual ori­en­ta­tion or gen­der expres­sion is inher­ently bet­ter than the oth­ers and there­fore choos­ing a spe­cific one for your child is not harm­ing them. I already explained that.”

    I should have explained my point/question bet­ter. I agree that fetuses have no rights.

    I agree that no sex­ual ori­en­ta­tion or gen­der expres­sion is inher­ently bet­ter than the oth­ers, which is why I agree that choos­ing a spe­cific one for your child is not harm­ing the child (or even the fetus if the fetus could be harmed (which it can’t).

    I am not ask­ing about harm to a fetus. I never said/typed that chang­ing sex­ual ori­en­ta­tion or gen­der expres­sion is harm­ful to a fetus. I am ask­ing about ethics (i.e. the beliefs about right and wrong… http://www.google.com/dictionary?aq=f&langpair=en|en&q=ethical&hl=en).

    Given that no sex­ual ori­en­ta­tion or gen­der expres­sion is inher­ently bet­ter than the other. How is it eth­i­cal to change or treat sex­ual ori­en­ta­tion and/or gen­der expression?

    Thank you for call­ing me out on the overuse of inter­robang (a new word for me). The overuse of inter­robang did neces­si­tate your call­ing me on it. I feel kind of silly/childish now… :)

    And another apol­ogy. I have no right to be dis­ap­pointed in how you see real­ity or inter­pret stud­ies around how women choose a mate for the pur­poses of hav­ing a child. My feel­ing dis­ap­pointed was ridiculous.

    I really don’t care to dis­cuss women choos­ing mates (in spite of my dif­fer­ence in opin­ion) any­more. I am more inter­ested in read­ing what you have to say about the drug being used to pre­vent inter-sexed births. I don’t agree with it.

    I don’t think gals should be allowed to choose the sec­ondary char­ac­ter­is­tics of what comes out of their vagina decid­ing to have some­thing (an infant) come out of said vagina unless it is harm­ful to the vagina or its owner.

  • ’ women also know that they can’t barter sex for com­mit­ment and sup­port and will set­tle for flings and impreg­na­tion’ « some women seek out flings and impreg­na­tion and actively avoid com­mit­ment. Just as some men do. This is 2010. Not 1865!!

  • This girl actively avoids commitment.

  • arctic_jay wrote:

    Sport has results? Go figure.”

    Sports are one of the most use­ful human cul­tural inven­tions. Men will always have the instinct to com­pete and rank them­selves. Left in unciv­i­lized hands that will result in activ­i­ties like bul­ly­ing and gang wars. Sports add rules, man­ners, and objec­tive cri­te­ria to mas­cu­line impulses. It also facil­i­tates het­ero­sex­u­al­ity by pro­vid­ing a con­crete way of deter­min­ing who the alpha males are.

  • arctic_jay wrote:

    Floyd, I was call­ing the con­fus­ingly named “hello” a troll, not you.

    I am dis­ap­pointed to hear that you feel women…”

    Um, why would you be disappointed?

    Per­haps you could pro­vide a reli­able link/source with this data? It is my expe­ri­ence that women do not ‘fre­quently’ choose to have chil­dren with ‘unfaith­ful and uncar­ing scoundrels.’”

    Here’s a link on the “cad vs. dad” strat­egy women employ: http://www-personal.umich.edu/~kruger/KF_DC_CRISP.pdf

    Here’s a link on how women pre­fer mas­cu­line fea­tures when ovu­lat­ing: http://www.sciencedaily.com/releases/2008/11/081112074436.htm

    There are also sur­veys that show that the more mas­cu­line a man appears, the less women trust him to be faith­ful. So, putting it together, women seek out mas­cu­line men whom they know will pump and dump them dur­ing peak fertility.

    To put female mat­ing strate­gies in a nut­shell, alpha males are desir­able, but, by def­i­n­i­tion, rare. Since men con­stantly test one another to estab­lish hier­ar­chy, how they rank on the man­li­ness spec­trum becomes obvi­ous in any social cir­cle (think high school). Alphas know who they are and hang out with each other. They also know that they are the most sought after mate choice and women know this as well. Due to this, women also know that they can’t barter sex for com­mit­ment and sup­port and will set­tle for flings and impreg­na­tion. Beta males, who can’t com­pete agains alpha on phys­i­cal attrac­tion alone com­pen­sate by being pussy whipped walk­ing bank accounts. And that’s the sad story of human reproduction.

    The whin­ing addi­tion really was not necessary.”

    Your overuse of the inter­robang neces­si­tated it ;)

    Can you go into a lit­tle more detail about why you think this treat­ment is ethical…?”

    Because fetuses have no rights and no sex­ual ori­en­ta­tion or gen­der expres­sion is inher­ently bet­ter than the oth­ers and there­fore choos­ing a spe­cific one for your child is not harm­ing them. I already explained that.

  • I was still laugh­ing about that sketch when I went to bed last night!

    Why are there so many more Amer­i­can contributors/readers to this blog than Brits? Are British gay men shy? Or less politi­cised? Or less met­ro­sex­u­ally aware?

  • Thanks for the intro, Mark. The “How very dare you” in response to QRG’s out­ing is a lot more humor­ous now!

  • I can’t stand Decca Aitken­head. I am sure you didn’t deserve any­thing of the kind!

  • Vaggy’ is a funny word. I too was unable to fin­ish any of his books I started. It’s a shame, and prob­a­bly more a reflec­tion on me than him, because he does seem to have been onto some­thing about con­sumerism in 80s Amer­ica. The film ver­sion of Amer­i­can Psy­cho is most, er, vis­cer­ally met­ro­sex­ual movie ever.

  • And for our Amer­i­can read­ers — an intro­duc­tion to Cather­ine Tate:

  • Oh I see…

    Yes. It is redun­dant. I don’t know why I have found him inter­est­ing after being totally un-interested. I haven’t even read Amer­i­can Psy­cho. (I read Less Than Zero and got bored). It must have been his use of the term ‘vaggy’ — it made me laugh. I shall go back to ignor­ing him now.

  • Oh sorry Mark, is Brett a friend of yours? Here he charms Grazia and her read­ers, by admit­ting to being a misogynist:

    http://www.graziadaily.co.uk/fashion/archive/2010/07/20/bret-easton-ellis-kicks-off-the-first-ever-grazia-book-club.htm

    I like it when he says (a lit­tle too wist­fully?) ‘it just seems like there are so many more women than there are gay peo­ple or black peo­ple in this country’.…

  • No, Brett isn’t a friend of mine. My Cather­ine Tate moment was refer­ring to your out­ra­geous cheek in out­ing us all on here.

    His admit­ting he’s a misog­y­nist is a tad redun­dant, n’est pas?

  • By the way, Ms Aitken­head wrote a piece attack­ing me in the Graun some years ago. I’m sure I deserved it, but can’t remem­ber what my offence was now. I do how­ever recall think­ing at the time that she should prob­a­bly have actu­ally read the book in ques­tion before doing so.

  • Sport has results? Go figure.

  • To Arc­tic:
    I don’t know what evi­dence you have of my “bit­ter­ness” except for your being “pretty sure”. Truth­fully, you know noth­ing about me. What is your def­i­n­i­tion of a drive-by troll? Just curi­ous.… I would be happy to let you know if I really am, in fact, a drive-by troll. I have no rea­son to lie. This is a blog.

    I have enjoyed the con­ver­sa­tion in the posts going back a week and have decided to par­tic­i­pate. One rea­son I enjoy these con­ver­sa­tions is because there is a lack of name call­ing. I find name call­ing really silly and point­less. Please don’t call me names Arctic.

    I am dis­ap­pointed to hear that you feel women “fre­quently bear the chil­dren of men they know are unfaith­ful and uncar­ing scoundrels.” I say feel because it is a feel­ing based on your own expe­ri­ence, as far as I know. Per­haps you could pro­vide a reli­able link/source with this data? It is my expe­ri­ence that women do not “fre­quently” choose to have chil­dren with “unfaith­ful and uncar­ing scoundrels”

    You went on to say, “Unless women are just masochis­tic, that’s evi­dence of women giv­ing pri­macy to cer­tain spe­cific traits.” Again, what evidence?

    Every­thing you men­tioned other than the choos­ing to “breed” as you put it with “unfaith­ful and uncar­ing scoundrels” I agree with.

    I inserted the inter-sexed com­ment because I felt it relates to the topic. I couldn’t agree with you more about the silly fetus… You said, “The point is that fetuses have no rights and chang­ing their poten­tial sex­ual ori­en­ta­tion or gen­der expres­sion is not harm­ing them, so stop whining.”

    The whin­ing addi­tion really was not necessary.

    I feel that inter-sexed babies should remain inter-sexed unless it is going to cause phys­i­cal harm. There are detailed sug­ges­tions at http://www.isna.org as to what par­ents should do with their inter-sexed infant. They are actu­ally great sug­ges­tions that I never would have thought of. You should take a look at them. You might find it inter­est­ing also. In addi­tion, I think there is a place in this world for both trans­gen­der and inter-sexed peo­ple. I feel they belong in our world and we should not pre­vent their birth. I feel this way, in par­tic­u­lar, due to the fre­quency of inter-sexed births.

    In ref­er­ence to arti­fi­cial insem­i­na­tion you say, “It’s so pop­u­lar because women are able to choose desir­able genes for their off­spring with­out the has­sle of roman­tic heartbreak.”

    I don’t believe it is “so pop­u­lar”. Can you show me some evi­dence of, or define “popularity”?

    My Aunt tried arti­fi­cial insem­i­na­tion. How­ever, it was a last resort for her after never find­ing “Mr. Right” (she was a flight atten­dant which does not eas­ily lend itself to find­ing a man who is not an unfaith­ful and uncar­ing scoundrel). She began try­ing to con­ceive after 40 and it never took.

    Now that those mis­un­der­stand­ings are out of the way.…

    Ques­tion for Arctic:

    Can you go into a lit­tle more detail about why you think this treat­ment is eth­i­cal (other than your feel­ings that women are just nat­u­rally awful at pick­ing part­ners)?
    I under­stand the fetus not hav­ing rights. I agree with you there.
    Is it that women are legally able to pick the sperm that they want, so they should also be able to pick the man­ner­isms of their future off­spring? or maybe it is sim­ply that we place a lot of weight on our per­cep­tion of how women “fre­quently” behave and just want to make the world a bet­ter place?

    I am not pick­ing a fight or any­thing. I just want to under­stand your point of view. I learn from peo­ple who think dif­fer­ently than me.

  • QRG: How very dare you!

  • I never thought I’d learn so much about women by hang­ing round in cyber­space with what I believe (based on the evi­dence such as it is) to be a bunch of gay men!! :)

    I was told recently about a ‘salon’ event where Brett Eas­ton Ellis was inter­viewed, in Lon­don. A woman who was there asked him a ques­tion about his writ­ing. She asked if he thought his work con­tributed to the cul­ture whereby peo­ple like Mel Gib­son and Roman Polan­ski are able to be vio­lent and abu­sive to women with­out much come­back, or if he is an artist and doesn’t have a respon­si­bil­ity to soci­ety in that cause/effect way. He said her ques­tion was bor­ing and ‘vaggy’. Which was quite funny. I agree with him the ques­tion was bor­ing. How was he sup­posed to answer? But it made me think.

    I think one of the rea­sons I like talk­ing online to you lot is that you aren’t ‘vaggy’ in your con­ver­sa­tion! And that sounds ter­ri­ble. I love women but often espe­cially in fem­i­nist dis­course, the obses­sion with fem­i­nin­ity, the fem­i­nine body, women’s oppres­sion, vio­lence against women, women as vic­tims of ‘men’ or ‘patri­archy’ is incred­i­bly dull indeed. But also you aren’t ‘cocky’ in that you aren’t reliant on retro or macho con­ver­sa­tions about sports results or what­ever those men talk about, or the really bor­ing style of male ‘logic’ and ‘ratio­nal­ity’ that dom­i­nates a lot of the press, and polit­i­cal blogs, and sci­ence and acad­e­mia to an extent.

    So thank-you. I feel cheered up by these con­ver­sa­tions how­ever weird they get. When I met my ‘Faux­mos’ (www.fauxmos.wordpress.com) friends a few weeks ago I was dis­ap­pointed because in real phys­i­cal life, despite our great gender-non-conforming ethos online, we all got a bit more ‘cocky’ and ‘vaggy’ and split into gen­der and sex­u­al­ity binaries/groupings. I was no doubt as bad as the rest of them. But I still think it is a start, to try and find ways of talk­ing and analysing that cross that line.

    I don’t think Brett Eas­ton Ellis would last five min­utes here. He is too much of a dick.

  • arctic_jay wrote:

    @qrg

    So Butler’s dead and in my ass, eh? I guess my con­tention that she’s utter shit is more lit­eral than I imag­ined : p

    I think it is such an impor­tant and under-examined issue. Because it dis­rupts our sense of male/female as a binary.”

    Sex is a binary because human repro­duc­tion oper­ates as a binary: preg­nancy and induc­ing of preg­nancy. We don’t repro­duce through fission.

    Inter­sex peo­ple do not defy the binary sys­tem or add to the gen­der pan­theon. A third gen­der would be the result of a tri­par­tite sys­tem of repro­duc­tion in which three par­tic­i­pants with unique gen­i­talia were all require in order to pro­duce offspring.

  • arctic_jay wrote:

    hello, I’m pretty cer­tain that drive-by trolls are the ones oper­at­ing out of a sense of bit­ter­ness. I’m sure one day you’ll dis­cover how to put your sput­ter­ing rage to good use. Good luck. *air kiss*

    @Floyd

    It sounds as though you think that women choose a mate based on the off­spring they will pro­duce. If that is the case…. wow…. I REALLY don’t know any­thing about women.”

    You clearly don’t. If you observe women’s mate choices with the under­stand­ing of their hyper­g­a­mous instincts, then their behav­ior makes sense. If you observe them while assum­ing they just want a good com­pan­ion who cares and under­stands them, then you’re let with explain­ing a lot of odd behavior.

    I could be wrong (I am a male), but doesn’t lik­ing the guy come first?”

    LOL, you are just utterly adorable!

    Am I wrong in assum­ing that if a woman chooses to ‘breed’ with the mate of her choice, doesn’t she already like most, if not all, of his characteristics?!?!?!?”

    Yes. Women fre­quently bear the chil­dren of men they know are unfaith­ful and uncar­ing scoundrels. Unless women are just masochis­tic, that’s evi­dence of women giv­ing pri­macy to cer­tain spe­cific traits.

    If one has a choice in sperm, of course they are going to pick the one they think best. Why wouldn’t they?”

    That’s the point. It’s so pop­u­lar because women are able to choose desir­able genes for their off­spring with­out the has­sle of roman­tic heartbreak.

    It is NORMAL.”

    Nor­mal is an almost mean­ing­less term used only for rhetor­i­cal pur­poses. The point is that fetuses have no rights and chang­ing their poten­tial sex­ual ori­en­ta­tion or gen­der expres­sion is not harm­ing them, so stop whining.

  • Hi Floyd A Here is some more detailed data on fre­quency of inter­sex babies born and sup­port­ing evi­dence of what you say, that many inter­sex peo­ple do not show char­ac­ter­is­tics till later in life:

    http://www.isna.org/faq/frequency

    Obvi­ously, stats are never pre­sented in a neu­tral way. That link is from the inter­sex soci­ety of North Amer­ica who have an inter­est in argu­ing inter­sex is rel­a­tively ‘com­mon’ and def­i­nitely not ‘abnormal’.

    I think it is such an impor­tant and under-examined issue. Because it dis­rupts our sense of male/female as a binary. The recent return to ath­let­ics by Caster Semenya is an inter­est­ing exam­ple of this dis­rup­tion. If she wanted to live as an inter­sex per­son, her career would be over as she can only com­pete in either men or women’s races.

    I think the reac­tive, neg­a­tive responses to the chal­lenge that gender-non-conforming peo­ple pose are com­ing from all direc­tions, includ­ing fem­i­nism, trans­gen­der activists, sci­en­tists, edu­ca­tional insti­tu­tions, gay and les­bian rights cam­paign­ers, the Chris­t­ian Right, jour­nal­ists… and they all argue as if they are stand­ing up for what is ‘good’ and ‘right’ and ‘true’. It makes me angry. But if I stand back for a moment I can enjoy at least on one level, the utter chaos of the dis­course they are try­ing and fail­ing so mar­vel­lously to control.

  • Floyd A. wrote:

    This is hysterical…

    I think “treat­ing” the pos­si­bil­ity of less fem­i­nine traits is ridiculous.

    I even think “treat­ing” the pos­si­bil­ity of an inter-sexed infant in utero is disgusting.

    Arc­tic says, “All moth­ers prac­tice selec­tive breed­ing through their choices of mate.”

    Are you kid­ding me?!?!?!
    It sounds as though you think that women choose a mate based on the off­spring they will pro­duce. If that is the case.… wow.… I REALLY don’t know any­thing about women. I could be wrong (I am a male), but doesn’t lik­ing the guy come first? Or do women really say, “Wow, this guy is really what I’m look­ing for in the per­son I ulti­mately want to live the rest of my life with. BUT, I wouldn’t want to mix my chro­mo­somes with his, so I am not going to “breed” with him.”

    Am I wrong in assum­ing that if a woman chooses to “breed” with the mate of her choice, doesn’t she already like most, if not all, of his characteristics?!?!?!?

    Arti­fi­cial insem­i­na­tion has noth­ing to do with this topic. If one has a choice in sperm, of course they are going to pick the one they think best. Why wouldn’t they?

    This treat­ment is a real slap in the face for human rights for those that are liv­ing TODAY as inter-sexed peo­ple, in par­tic­u­lar. 1 in 2000 new­borns have atyp­i­cal gen­i­talia at birth. That fig­ure does not include those born with typ­i­cal gen­i­talia that find out they have some vari­a­tion of inter-sexed char­ac­ter­is­tics until puberty. It is NORMAL. If inter-sexed char­ac­ter­is­tics are NORMAL. I think we can con­sider a woman who likes dri­ving fork lifts or repair­ing refrig­er­a­tors for a liv­ing nor­mal also.

  • I think it was Judith But­ler. A wor­ry­ing expe­ri­ence for anybody.

  • What crawled up artic_jay’s arse and died? Such a bit­ter human being.

  • Mark Walsh wrote:

    Just saw a shop adver­tis­ing “Manicures”

  • I think of her more as some­one who chal­lenges some of the worst assump­tions made by white mid­dle class fem­i­nism. I agree re: patri­archy. I think it’s a silly con­cept. The thing about fem­i­nism is it seems to enjoy the idea of this oppres­sive mono­lith so much, it had to invent it. I think there was a time when soci­ety was ‘patri­ar­chal’ in a more lit­eral sense but that was a long time ago. I am only talk­ing to you because no fem­i­nists will speak to me any­more btw!

  • arctic_jay wrote:

    God no. She’s writ­ten at least thirty books, and from my impres­sion, she’s not nearly worth the effort. Although I’ve prob­a­bly read more than most feminists.

    She seems to be the one always trot­ted out to peo­ple skep­ti­cal of fem­i­nism as an exam­ple of a fem­i­nist who is sym­pa­thetic to men, but she’s hardly bet­ter. She still believes there’s patri­archy and that men as a whole ben­e­fit, which is, plain and sim­ple, an anti-male position.

  • bell hooks wrote some good books. I wish some of the cur­rent crop of fem­i­nists both­ered to read them or any­thing at all. I am sure you have read every­thing she wrote, Jay.

  • arctic_jay wrote:

    Yes, I’m actu­ally a black ops fem­i­nist agi­ta­tor. I have a dog name bell (low­er­case pro­noun­ci­a­tion, remem­ber) after bell hooks, notable fem­i­nist and melanin-fortified womon. In honor of St. Dworkin’s pass­ing, I accused a his­panic jan­i­tor of rape. He tried to claim the fact that we’d never met made that impos­si­ble. Such patri­ar­chal rea­son­ing oppresses. But none of that detracts from my real work as a fem­i­nist: spoil­ing people’s fun.

  • If you keep on spoil­ing all our fun, Jay, I will start to think you are a fem­i­nist yourself.

  • arctic_jay wrote:

    Yes, Mark, your fem­i­nine side is quite leg­endary. I hear you can pull a cement truck five blocks on the ten­sile might of your labial folds alone. Pity, though, your mas­cu­line side’s a bit of a pansy.

    The germ of fem­i­nism is a bit­ter­ness over male his­tor­i­cal accom­plish­ment. All fem­i­nist the­o­ries are moti­vated by the desire to con­vince every­one that prodi­gious male achieve­ment is pos­si­ble only through patri­ar­chal oppres­sion. Unre­pen­tant chau­vin­ism has the same effect on fem­i­nists that water has on spin­ster witches who live alone with their pet mon­keys. That’s why men are start­ing to becom­ing increas­ingly sexist.

  • So when the shit hits the fan with the fem­i­nists, my mas­cu­line side can count on your fem­i­nine side to stand beside me and look intim­i­dat­ing? Excellent.

  • Yes — while my mas­cu­line side runs for the hills, scream­ing like a girl.

  • I sus­pect Mark and his well devel­oped fem­i­nine side mud­dle through quite hap­pily with­out wor­ry­ing what I think about them! But it’s a nice image. I won­der if his fem­i­nine side owns a hand­bag? Or wears marigolds to do the dishes. I really hope that nei­ther of them owns a cat. That would be going too far.

  • My fem­i­nine side works out very hard down the gym and has much big­ger guns than my mas­cu­line side as a result. But both of us are aller­gic to cats. And pos­si­bly to lesbianism.

  • arctic_jay wrote:

    Um, so I did peg your beliefs per­fectly, then? When I think of social con­struc­tivism as it relates to gen­der, the pri­mary per­son I have in mind is Judith But­ler. When I took Fem­i­nist Phi­los­o­phy, we stud­ied chap­ters from “Gen­der Trou­ble” and “Bod­ies that Mat­ter.” I think she’s full of shit. Just because the short hair makes her look like a tan Richard Dawkins, doesn’t make her a liv­ing tes­ta­ment to gen­der fluidity.

    And I love, love, love that you con­sider Mark a gen­der ben­der. I’m sure he and his well-developed fem­i­nine side much appre­ci­ate that.

  • My view of gen­der and a view of my favourite gen­der ben­der (after Mark S of course) : http://fuckyeahfemmes.tumblr.com/post/616245258

  • arctic_jay wrote:

    Which con­clu­sions have I jumped that don’t rep­re­sent your beliefs? Every thing you’ve writ­ten sug­gests you believe in the social con­struc­tivist model of gender.

  • I think you have seen some key words on my com­ments and jumped to con­clu­sions about my per­spec­tives that are not correct.

    I am not a rad­i­cal fem­i­nist or an ‘aver­age queer’ what­ever that is. I might be a rad­i­cal queer and a very non-average fem­i­nist though!

  • arctic_jay wrote:

    I’m not just try­ing to win an com­ments sec­tion argu­ment, though I enjoy debat­ing. I’m just con­stantly amazed at your aver­age queer’s per­sis­tence in cling­ing to fem­i­nist gender-studies bull­shit. The short-sightedness of this strat­egy will ulti­mately backfire.

    The tra­di­tional (pre-feminist) view of gen­der is under­de­vel­oped and over-simplified and would ben­e­fit from mar­gin­al­ized per­spec­tives. Nature always allows for a sig­nif­i­cant amount of vari­ance and this needs to be part of our con­cep­tion of sex and gen­der. How­ever, the binary nature of sex is real and pri­mary if not com­pre­hen­sive. Despite the fact that the dog­matic 1950s remain the face of the intol­er­ant past, many cul­tures at many points in his­tory have been able to inte­grate inter­sex­u­al­ity into their gen­der pan­theon. Those cul­tures pro­vide a much bet­ter model than fem­i­nist social con­struc­tivism. The whole­sale rejec­tion of inher­ent gen­der will never take in the long term and will only con­tribute to an impend­ing cul­ture war.

    Also, the fem­i­nist approach to the dis­cus­sion will end up fur­ther alien­at­ing men from women and from any dis­cus­sions con­cern­ing the mal­leabil­ity of gen­der. The ridicu­lous­ness of a FTM tran­sex­ual demand­ing the label of “Man” when fem­i­nism has no ade­quate def­i­n­i­tion for the term and the label is not eas­ily given to peo­ple born male is offen­sive and coun­ter­pro­duc­tive. Iron­i­cally, it’s because many men still per­ceive trans­men as female that they let this pre­sump­tion slide, but if pushed too far will result in backlash.

    It’s this rad­i­cal fem­i­nist approach to gen­der non-conformism that spurs treat­ments like the one dis­cussed here. If the non-conformists are going to com­pre­hen­sively push their agenda, then con­ser­v­a­tives are going to take the bat­tle to ground zero: the womb.

  • The orig­i­nal press about this case has been shown to be mis­lead­ing. The treat­ment relates to inter­sex babies (as yet to be born) and to affect­ing their devel­op­ment so they are born with ‘nor­mal’ gen­i­talia. I am doing some more research into this. I am still deeply con­cerned about it.

    It has made me feel like I am a lit­tle bit insane. I know that there are peo­ple e.g. Mark S and some oth­ers who are both­ered about this. But it seems like very few peo­ple want to chal­lenge the assump­tions that under­pin this research: i.e. that the gen­der binary between male and female./man and woman (gay and straight for that mat­ter) rep­re­sents ‘real­ity’. I stud­ied this in the mid 1990s and felt bad for being a bit behind the times in my research. 15 years later it seems the world has gone back­wards to a more essen­tial­ist, ‘nat­ural’ position

    ‘Gay rights’ may have been main­streamed, but so has Con­ser­vatism and reac­tionary ‘sci­en­tific’ the­o­ries of sex­u­al­ity and gen­der it seems to me. But we have the tools to argue with that posi­tion now, why aren’t we using them? I can only con­clude that there is no longer a ‘we’ who both want to, and are able to express the con­cepts clearly.

    So yes, OMG arc­tic jay, I think it’s worth an occa­sional inar­tic­u­late excla­ma­tion. Life is not always a com­pe­ti­tion to see who can win at inter­netz arguments.

    Yours, not as cool, calm and col­lected as she likes to think she is usually,

    QRG

  • arctic_jay wrote:

    Your posts boil down to “OMG.” One of them even boils down to :-O.

  • I never say ‘OMG’ arc­tic jay. What­ever do you take me for?

  • arctic_jay wrote:

    I have no desire to argue against abor­tion or against parental rights.”

    This is why the oppo­si­tion against this treat­ment, and treat­ments of this type, will remain uncon­vinc­ing. Argu­ing against it requires acknowl­edg­ing fetal rights which is in essence a chal­lenge to abor­tion. Oth­er­wise it just come across a hypocrisy and a desire to keep a cer­tain per­cent­age of the pop­u­la­tion homosexual.

    But I will chal­lenge the ethics, morals and pol­i­tics of med­ical inter­ven­tions which attempt to nor­malise people’s sex and gen­der identities.”

    But that’s the thing: you’re not chal­leng­ing it, you’re just say­ing, “OMG, homo­pho­bia, trans­pho­bia!” On what fun­da­men­tal prin­ci­ples are you stand­ing on to oppose this treat­ment? And say­ing some­thing is a right but also immoral is mud­dled think­ing. Some­thing can rely on a nat­ural right and still be unsa­vory, dis­taste­ful, and offen­sive, but not immoral.

  • I don’t want arctic_jay to have the last word on this dis­cus­sion, but I am not sure how to respond.

    Some­times just because peo­ple have the ‘right’ to do some­thing, it doesn’t mean that we have to sit back and not chal­lenge the moti­va­tions and poten­tial dam­ag­ing impli­ca­tions of them doing it. I have no desire to argue against abor­tion or against parental rights. But I will chal­lenge the ethics, morals and pol­i­tics of med­ical inter­ven­tions which attempt to nor­malise people’s sex and gen­der iden­ti­ties. We have the ‘right’ to be homo­pho­bic and trans­pho­bic. But I will con­tinue to chal­lenge those mind­sets and behav­iours wher­ever I encounter them.

  • arctic_jay wrote:

    As far as this dim-wit Dr. who believes that she can deter­mine pref­ered objects of anyone’s affec­tion before they have even encoun­tered real­ity, at all, she has a lot to learn about expe­ri­ence and social­iza­tion 101.”

    I don’t even buy that you believe what you’ve writ­ten here. If you don’t believe this Doc­tor can achieve her goals, why are you so alarmed? Is it sim­ply because some chil­dren might be harmed in the exper­i­men­ta­tion process? I’d imag­ine there are many med­ical exper­i­ments being con­ducted that have a far greater risk of dam­age toward the larger pop­u­la­tion. To glom onto this one seems odd.

  • arctic_jay wrote:

    It is a choice laden with mas­sive polit­i­cal, eth­i­cal, moral and cul­tural implications.”

    This isn’t even a coun­ter­ar­gu­ment. Choices that deter­mine how peo­ple inter­act will of course have mas­sive impli­ca­tions if occur on a wide scale; that doesn’t explain any­thing. Women already have the right to abort and par­ents have the right to make choices that steer their children’s phys­i­cal and men­tal devel­op­ment. You have to explain how these rights don’t also pro­tect the right of par­ents to med­ically alter their children’s sex­ual orientation.

    It reminds me of peo­ple who abort girl children.”

    And what is your argu­ment against this?

    You really shouldn’t find fem­i­nist silence on this issue puz­zling. They know that object­ing to this kind of treat­ment brings up the ques­tion of fetal rights which shifts the abor­tion argu­ment in a direc­tion they do not want it to go.

  • This arti­cle focusses on how the CAH treat­ment is try­ing to reduce the like­li­hood of ‘inter­sex’ babies being born, rather than lesbians.

    http://www.feministing.com/archives/021729.html?utm_source=twitterfeed&utm_medium=twitter

  • Mark Walsh said: As far as this dim-wit Dr. who believes that she can deter­mine pref­ered objects of anyone’s affec­tion before they have even encoun­tered real­ity, at all, she has a lot to learn about expe­ri­ence and social­iza­tion 101.

    I agree Mark W, but I don’t think she is alone in her ‘dim-witted’ ness. I think we are liv­ing in an age where the ‘nature’ side of the ‘nature v nur­ture’ debate is regain­ing lost ground. I have been dis­cussing this story online with some health researchers, and although they come from a social con­struc­tion­ist back­ground, they seem unable to just stand up and say, ‘this is bol­locks. Gen­der and sex­u­al­ity are socially and cul­tur­ally pro­duced’. They haven’t exactly told me why they can’t but I think it is to do with the dom­i­nant dis­courses within science/health/medicine, which do not accept ‘expe­ri­ence and social­i­sa­tion 101′ the way we do! It is depress­ing indeed. But to put it all on one indi­vid­ual doc­tor would be to miss the point and scale of the prob­lem I am afraid to say.

  • Mark Walsh wrote:

    It seems to me that , as has mostly been the habit in the west, that par­ents have to live with what they beget..
    Drs. & phar­ma­ceu­ti­cal com­pa­nies will make up and find cures for what­ever makes money : cer­tainly in Amer­ica: Cer­tainly a com­pendium of the new psy­chi­atric “dis­or­ders” , leaves a great exam­ple of that.

    As far as this dim-wit Dr. who believes that she can deter­mine pref­ered objects of anyone’s affec­tion before they have even encoun­tered real­ity, at all, she has a lot to learn about expe­ri­ence and social­iza­tion 101. What a sim­ple­ton; most edu­cated peo­ple would know that the sci­en­tific basis of that goal is ridicu­lous. Peo­ple only have vague predilictions(i.e. re need for nour­ish­ment , sex­ual choice at most.)

  • My scrawled attempt to respond to the story. This might get deleted as its a bit rough!
    http://quietgirlriot.wordpress.com/2010/07/02/the-world-wont-listen/

  • Here is a great list of the arti­cles on the sub­ject, found by my online friend and amaz­ing inter­na­tional devel­op­ment worker in sex­ual health, Matt Greenall: http://post.ly/lXbW The pre­vi­ous sci­en­tific papers by the author of this cur­rent ‘med­ical’ study are very dis­turb­ing to me.

  • If par­ents want fem­i­nine, het­ero­sex­ual female chil­dren, that’s their choice to make.’ It is a choice laden with mas­sive polit­i­cal, eth­i­cal, moral and cul­tural impli­ca­tions. It reminds me of peo­ple who abort girl children.

    By the way, Doc­tor ‘bad sci­ence’ Ben Goldacre has picked up on this story now, and is try­ing to defend the ‘sci­ence com­mu­nity’ against the nasty social crit­ics who write ‘bad jour­nal­ism’ about things like gen­der and sex­u­al­ity, which we all know should be left in the hands of those who know what to do with it, the doc­tors in the white coats! I am find­ing this a bit hilar­i­ous, but I shouldn’t as peo­ple like Dr G hold a lot of sway with the media and some lib­er­als who work on dis­sem­i­nat­ing ‘mes­sages’ about gen­der and sex.

    Watch this space! Well we have been watch­ing this space between ‘sci­ence’ and ‘cul­ture’ for many years, so I guess we will just keep watching.

  • When doc­tors and sci­en­tists attempt social/cultural engi­neer­ing of this kind they should expect to find them­selves in a very messy, non peer-revivewed fight indeed.

  • arctic_jay wrote:

    Although any risks and poten­tial side-effects asso­ci­ated with the treat­ment should give peo­ple pause, the pur­pose of the treat­ment is entirely eth­i­cal and I’m sus­pi­cious as to the rea­sons why peo­ple would oppose it. All moth­ers prac­tice selec­tive breed­ing through their choices of mate. Women who opt for arti­fi­cial insem­i­na­tion make con­scious efforts when perus­ing the dossiers of sperm donors to ensure cer­tain traits for their off­spring, and I guar­an­tee you many if not most of them select­ing con­ven­tion­ally mas­cu­line donors. If par­ents want fem­i­nine, het­ero­sex­ual female chil­dren, that’s their choice to make. It only crosses eth­i­cal bound­aries if par­ents make a choice that’s objec­tively harm­ful for their child.

    The female doc­tor devel­op­ing this treat­ment might be con­ser­v­a­tive fem­i­nist who believes that female power and enti­tle­ment comes from moth­er­hood and who believes that lib­eral fem­i­nists who decry moth­er­hood and seek to invade the male sphere are play­ing with fire.

    The US already has its “grass eaters.” It just seems more like a big deal in asian coun­tries like China and Japan because one, they’ve always had a very com­pli­cated rela­tion­ship with non-conformity, and two, they seemed to be able to take trends to a level of ded­i­ca­tion and seri­ous­ness that doesn’t exist in the mod­ern west.

    I see the push for androg­yny in the west lead­ing to a cul­tural war mainly because the kind the gen­der non-conformists are advo­cat­ing is nei­ther fair nor cor­rec­tive. The butch woman peo­ple claim is so tough would eas­ily be ren­dered a bloody pulp by most men, but that’s only because she’s allowed to retain her female priv­i­leges (“never hit a woman”) while indulging her mas­cu­line impulses. The fact that this dual priv­i­lege is allowed to go unno­ticed and unan­a­lyzed is what enables the non-conformist to claim that men are “threat­ened” by female androg­yny rather than sim­ply fight­ing back against an antag­o­nis­tic force. Most men also gain noth­ing by becom­ing androg­y­nous or by fore­go­ing mas­culin­ity; I think it’s more a res­ig­na­tion than an expres­sion of one’s true self. They can’t com­pete with the alpha males who gar­ner female atten­tion with­out effort and they don’t have a level play­ing field with modem women.

  • Those two pic­tured look like they have walked straight out of a Murakami novel.

    I sup­pose this is part of the Backlash.

    I am pleased you used the term ‘gender-non-conformity’ as these kind of inter­ven­tions are not just about sex­u­al­ity. And with the rise of vis­i­bil­ity of trans­gen­der and gender-non-conforming peo­ple, I think the ‘gen­der wars’ may see more of this kind of reac­tionary approach, from all sorts of social insti­tu­tions and indi­vid­u­als. But as your arti­cle demon­strates, the world is chang­ing, and their attempts to stamp out ‘abnor­mal­ity’ are unlikely to suc­ceed. They might suc­ceed in fuck­ing some more peo­ple up and mak­ing some more people’s lives mis­er­able, sim­ply by try­ing, though.

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